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Friday, February 6, 2015

How To Read The Entire Internet

by Patrick Appel “Send me five links a day” was the original job Andrew gave me. Now, in the more than seven years since then, I have almost certainly read more than a million blog posts. It is entirely possible, during that time, that I have read more posts than anyone else on the planet. […]

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Kelly Services posted a job you might be interested in

Kelly Services

Comercial Área Saúde (M/F) - Lisboa

Lisbon Area, Portugal, PT - Health, Wellness and Fitness

A Kelly Search & Selection encontra-se em processo de recrutamento para a selecção de um Comercial – área saúde para prestigiado Cliente que actua na zona de Lisboa.

Este profissional terá como principais responsabilidades a representação da marca, a gestão de clientes e a detecção de novas oportunidades de negócio nesta zona geográfica.

No salary provided

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Robert Walters posted a job you might be interested in

Robert Walters


Sultanate of Oman, OM - Oil & Energy

Reportando al Project Control Manager, sus principales responsabilidades serán:

  • Preparación de informes de control de costes de proyectos EPC.

  • Identificar, registrar y analizar los potenciales cambios en los proyectos, que puedan afectar el cumplimiento de los objetivos, actualizando las líneas bases de costes establecidas, haciendo seguimiento al proceso de aprobación e implementación de los mismos.

  • Efectuar la integración, la elaboración, actualización y seguimiento al presupuesto de los proyectos, en el nivel de detalle que sea necesario para un adecuado control.

  • Efectuar el control de los costos en base a los lineamientos establecidos en el sistema de control de proyectos corporativo.

  • Elaborar presentaciones de control de costos para los proyectos, reuniones gerenciales, directorios y mercado en general.

Atractiva remuneración

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Hays Specialist Recruitment Ltd posted a job you might be interested in

Hays Specialist Recruitment Ltd

Tax Manager / Senior Manager

Belfast, United Kingdom, GB - Accounting

This is a Belfast based Chartered Accountancy. Hays Senior Finance have been asked to source an experienced tax professional, ideally at Manager or Senior Manager level.

My client is growing both in staffing numbers and client base. With a very strong Partner structure coming from some of Northern Ireland's most reputable firms, the wealth of knowledge and experience is a big contributing factor to recent client growth.

Over the last 12 months professional staff numbers have grown by a third and this week alone my client has won 5 significant tax based contracts.

What are we looking for? You will have a strong corporate tax background predominately, however experience with personal tax is desirable.

You will manage an existing client portfolio with a hope to develop that further. Typical projects will include, advising on tax incentives, promoting R&D and Patent box for example.

Along side bespoke projects, traditional compliance and advisory services such as IHT, company reorganisations and due diligence will be part of your work.

This is by all means not limited to the responsibilities and as this is an independent boutique accountancy practice, you will receive more control and exposure to your client portfolio, with various incentives given due to merit.

For more information on this role please contact Anthony Handley at Hays Senior finance on 02890446911 or apply via the link.

Hays Specialist Recruitment Limited acts as an employment agency for permanent recruitment and employment business for the supply of temporary workers. By applying for this job you accept the T&C's, Privacy Policy and Disclaimers which can be found at

£45000.00 - £50000.00 per annum

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RetroPi TV @raspberry_pi #PiDay

Joo shared a awesomely retro Raspberry Pi project on Thingiverse. For the use with a nintendo pi: a mod for a cheap chinese 3.5″ LCD like these: (the ebay one i bought isn’t available anymore but looks the same) The frame is lasercut stained birch I won’t describe many details since it’s pretty much […]

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Updating Raspbian on your MicroSD for the Raspberry Pi 2 #piday #raspberrypi @Raspberry_Pi

The Pi Hut has a straightforward tutorial on how to update Raspbian on your microSD for your new Raspberry Pi 2. So, you have bought yourself a Raspberry Pi 2 to supplement your previous Pi, but you want to use the same microSD card as the old Pi? The processor in the new Pi2 is […]

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Raspberry Pi MAME Portable Part 2 #PiDay

Ben Heck finalizes his new Raspberry Pi MAMA portable. Ben sets out to create a second revision of the Raspberry Pi MAME portable gaming device. This time he has a better display, a newer Pi, and an improved charging circuit. In this episode he finishes off the project by stuffing the PCB created in part […]

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Medieval Darth Vader Costume

The team at Prince Armory makes hand crafted costumes, armor, and just about everything from leather. They’ve created some unique and creative costumes, including medieval takes on characters like Aquaman and Loki. Most recently, they took a medieval approach to Darth Vader from Star Wars. The components were mostly made from 10 ounce premium veg […]

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Celebrating 700,000 orders – thank you!

A big milestone for us today, Feb, 6 2015 at 6:06am ET we hit our 700,000th order! On October 6th, 2014 we hit our 600,000th order. On May 14, 2014 we hit our 500,000th order. Before that in December of 2013 we hit 400,0000 orders and then previously in June of 2013 we hit our […]

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Encouraging Signs: This Is a Great Jobs Report Across the Board

The good news was not only in the hiring numbers themselves, but also in signs of a growing labor force and rising wages.

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As Jindal Looks Ahead, Louisiana’s Budget Woes Multiply

Amid talk of Bobby Jindal’s presidential aspirations, questions swirl around what is to blame for a shortfall estimated to hit $1.6 billion next year.

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Lens Blog: Designing a World of His Own

The man who once billed himself as the “world’s greatest photographer” has a new exhibit that shows lesser-known work with a quiet, classical bent.

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Undersea Volcanoes Erupt with Gravity, Shifting Earth's Climate

Researchers link volcanoes, tides and climate change

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Sunken city: Brazil's drought reveals lost town - video

A sunken city emerges after Brazil is struck by its worst drought in 80 years. Igarata, near São Paulo, in the Jaguari reservoir, has been underwater since 1969 when the area was flooded to build a dam. Falling water levels have revealed previously submerged features including a church and several streets Continue reading...

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Sport picture of the day: spectacular Sepak takraw

The players in the south-east Asian sport of Sepak takraw have to be athletic, flexible and have a spring in their step. Here, Myamar’s Thant Zin Oo, left, is unable to block Thailand’s Thawisak Thongsai during their Group A match during the ISTAF Super Series in Malaysia

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Channel 4's Cathy Newman apologises for 'misunderstanding' over mosque

Presenter sparked row with Twitter claim that she was ‘ushered out of the door’ of Islamic centre in south London

Channel 4 News presenter Cathy Newman has apologised for “any misunderstanding” over her ill-fated visit to a mosque in south London.

Newman hit the headlines after she tweeted on Sunday saying that she was “ushered out of” the South London Islamic Centre in Streatham.

Well I just visited Streatham mosque for #VisitMyMosque day and was surprised to find myself ushered out of the door...

I was respectfully dressed, head covering and no shoes but a man ushered me back onto the street. I said I was there for #VisitMyMosque mf

But it made no difference

Had wonderful warm welcome - not to mention tea and cake at @HyderiCentre #VisitMyMosque

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If I were queen for a day, I’d champion women’s sport – and Soft Cell

I’ve had enough of rudeness to female athletes, and carpets – and the idea that all disabled people are the same

This is going to be a long day, so I will have to start at one minute past midnight and take up the whole 24 hours. A lot of coffee will be drunk.

First of all, anyone who shouts something rude at a woman playing sport will have to explain their conduct in front of all her friends – and then do that activity themselves, with the woman and her mates “offering advice”.

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Labour’s Tristram Hunt: I meant no offence to nuns

Shadow education secretary criticised after appearing to question nuns’ ability to teach

Tristram Hunt, the shadow education secretary, has said he meant no offence to nuns after appearing to question their ability to teach.

The Labour frontbencher faced criticism from Tories and Catholics after engaging in an argument on BBC1’s Question Time on Thursday about the role of teachers from a religious order in faith schools.

On BBC QT I was trying to make a generalised point about the use of unqualified teachers in schools. I obviously meant no offence to nuns.

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Hays Specialist Recruitment posted a job you might be interested in

Hays Specialist Recruitment

Recruitment Consultant

Edinburgh, United Kingdom, GB - Staffing and Recruiting

A career as a Recruitment Consultant with Hays is unique. We are the leading global recruitment specialists providing recruitment solutions to clients and job seekers across key sectors such as Construction, Finance and Office Support.

As a Recruitment Consultant you will have the best of both worlds. You will have the support and expertise of an experienced and committed management team whilst being given the opportunity to run your own business with an entrepreneurial approach. This requires a tenacious and target driven nature.

Hays Edinburgh is currently recruiting for a Recruitment Consultants to join their thriving team within our Construction & Property Sector/IT and Human Resources sectors. These are expanding teams and so will be suited to someone who enjoys an industrious and successful environment and who relishes the challenge of building client relationships. You will be passionate about people, keen to build and share your expertise and respond well to targets.

For this role we will consider candidates of graduate calibre preferably in a sales oriented or target driven environment.

Hays biggest asset is its people and so we will invest in you through our well structured industry leading training programme. We aer committed to enabling you to fulfil your ambitions.

As well as market leading training programme, Hays offers an excellent salary with a lucrative commission scheme designed to reward hard work. Career progression is open to the individual whether to be to a Team/Business Manager or overseas in Europe, Canada, Austria, New Zealand and the Far East.

A valid driving licence is essential for this role.

If you are interested in applying or would like further information then please send your cv to

£22000 - £30000 per annum + + benefits

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Hewlett-Packard posted a job you might be interested in


Senior Storage Delivery Engineer

Greater Detroit Area, US - Information Technology and Services

Storage administrator with 5 or more years relevant experience in administration of the following storage technologies: 3PAR, HP, EMC, NetApp, Hitachi and others; fiber channel switches (cisco and brocade), FCIP remote replication, EMC SRDF and Pearl scripting. 10+ years industry experience overall is preferred

Position can be worked from Tulsa, OK, POntiac, MI or Plano, TX

No salary provided

Posted February 06, 2015 at 03:51PM from LinkedIn


PayPal posted a job you might be interested in


Sr. Systems Engineer

San Francisco Bay Area, US - Computer Networking, Computer Software, Financial Services

The Availability and Performance team is responsible for improving the customer experience globally by optimizing the configuration of platform, infrastructure, Internet, system and vendor components.

As an Availability and Performance Systems Engineer you will be working across the organization to identify, research and implement Performance and Availability improvement programs for platforms including but not limited to networks, servers, operating systems, web applications, storage, virtualized environments and partner connections.

You will lead/contribute to determining and maintaining the metrics and KPI's related to the performance and availability of the applications, systems and services.


  • Hands on design and support experience as well as up-to-date knowledge of the Linux, Apache, virtualization technologies, network and SAN storage technologies and operations managment.

  • 4+ years experience designing, building, supporting and troubleshooting highly scalable systems and platforms in a high transaction volume environment.

  • Ability to project manage teams directly or in a cross functional model and to define program goals and execute with a sense of urgency in a dynamic environment.

  • Demonstrated ability to support internal and external customers and work with cross-functional technical and non-technical teams to define requirements and follow systematic processes to identify, test and deploy best in class technologies and processes.

  • Demonstrated ability to solve problems analytically, create actionable recommendations through the analysis of infrastructure and application level data and present ideas, concepts and presentations to peers, managers and executives.

Basic Qualifications:

  • Bachelor's degree in a Computer Science or related field

  • 5+ years of work experience in related technical roles.

  • 5+ years work experience designing, implementing and supporting data center systems in an Internet hosting environment

About PayPal:

At PayPal, we put people at the center of everything we do. Founded in 1998, we continue to be at the forefront of the digital payments revolution, processing almost 10 million payments for our customers per day. PayPal gives people better ways to connect to their money and to each other, helping them send money without sharing financial information and with the flexibility to pay using their PayPal account balances, bank accounts, PayPal Credit and credit cards. With our 157 million active digital wallets, we have created an open and secure payments ecosystem people and businesses choose to securely transact with each other online, in stores and on mobile devices. PayPal is a truly global payments platform that is available to people in 203 markets, allowing customers to get paid in more than 100 currencies, withdraw funds to their bank accounts in 57 currencies and hold balances in their PayPal accounts in 26 currencies.

No salary provided

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Null and Void

In a piece of flash fiction titled “Negative Emotions,” Lydia Davis makes an eloquent case for negativity. In the story, a teacher inspired by Buddhist doctrine urges his colleagues to alleviate their negative feelings by identifying “emotion as an emotion” and practicing “mindful breathing” and other feel-good platitudes. His audience is skeptical. “Far from being troubled by their negative emotions,” Davis writes, the teacher’s peers “liked having negative emotions, particularly about him and his message.” A mere 282 words, “Negative Emotions” is deliciously defiant, a powerful defense of anger and distaste. At a time when new age philosophers and trendy TED-talkers proselytize from every corner of the Internet, insisting on emotional stability in even the most destabilizing circumstances, there’s something to be said for a healthy dose of doom and gloom. Nothing grates like gratuitous cheerfulness. There is, after all, so much to hate.

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Quote For The Day

By Maurice Sendak: “But the wild things cried, “Oh please don’t go – we’ll eat you up – we love you so!” And Max said, “No!” The wild things roared their terrible roars and gnashed their terrible teeth and rolled their terrible eyes and showed their terrible claws but Max stepped into his private boat […]

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Artificial Photosynthesis For Energy Takes A Step Forward

Scientists decipher keys to the tricky process, crucial for making hydrogen from water and light

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Philippine President Accepts Police Chief’s Resignation After Deadly Raid

The president has faced searing public criticism since a raid left 44 police officers dead and put the country’s peace agreement with rebels in jeopardy.

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New Lightweight Steel Could Improve Cars' Fuel Efficiency

The material bests titanium alloys for its strength and ductility

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hewlett-packard posted a job you might be interested in


Customer Solutions Representative

Dalian, Liaoning, China, CN - Information Technology and Services

  • Responsible for validating customer entitlement, log case for the purpose of routing or dispatching an end-user to the proper resources.

  • Monitor the service event through completion for compliance.

  • Manage the service requests of customers through different access channels.

  • Reviews customer feedback related to customer entitlement & case management and analysis of statistics related to customer access (phone) & case management.

  • Participates in projects for process or quality improvements.

  • Works with escalated customers and recommends actions in post incident reviews.

  • Manages multiple tasks or cases simultaneously with minimal supervision

Qualifications :

Education and Experience Required:

High school education or equivalent.

Typically requires 1-3 years general experience, or equivalent combination of experience and college level education.

Knowledge and Skills:

Superior communication skills both written and verbal

Experience in customer facing role either remote or face to face

Understands internal processes and tools

Computer proficiency

Problem solving skills

Accuracy in data entry

Excellent fluency in language to be supported.

Experience in a phone based remote role

Familiarity with computer technology

Time management skills

Oversee compliance with operating procedures and standards

Knowledgeable in call routing and case management processes as well as case logging systems and obligation systems

Understands internal processes and tools

No salary provided

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General Motors posted a job you might be interested in

General Motors

Treasury Operations Analyst 职位职能

China, CN - Automotive


GMIO Treasury Center, as part of the GM Treasurer's office, offers a broad array of experiences in Corporate Finance and Treasury Operations through its rotational program and is anchored on the model of building (1) Finance & Leadership skills, (2) Making an Impact on GM business and facilitating (3) Career Progression Treasury Operations Analyst will join the GMIO Treasury Operations and Capital Markets group, and among other things, will be responsible for the following areas:


? Core Treasury Operations - Run cash positioning process, execute treasury wires, and support cash reconciliation utilizing Wall Street Systems (WSS) treasury platform - Provide support for FX trades, cash investments, and short-term funding


? Counterparty Exposure - Advise business units on counterparty credit risk management - Manage counterparty exposure reporting process


? Bank Relationships - Track and manage GMIO entities' bank accounts and bank workstation access - Support annual bank account validation process


? Treasury Transformation - Support implementation of global treasury model and WSS rollout across the GMIO region


? Provide financial and strategic support for other corporate initiatives


Qualifications: Analysts are expected to be ambitious, quick learners, creative problem solvers, and able to adapt to a fast-paced, high-impact work environment. Other qualifications include:


? Preferably 2-3 years of experience working in corporate treasury, back or middleoffice of bank, or accounting firm


? Demonstrated interest in finance and business


? Strong analytical skills, facility with numbers and proficiency in Microsoft Office


? Good written and verbal English communications skills


? Ability to work independently, take initiative & ownership, and generate results


? Ability to stay organized and handle multiple projects at once


? Drive for professional growth and a propensity for constant learning GM Consolidated International Operations No. 56, Jinwan Road, Pudong Shanghai 201206, China Uniqueness about GM Treasurer's Office


? Cutting Edge of Financial Innovation - Given GM's size and scope, interact with a talented financial community


? Interaction with Top Professionals - Exposure to top management - Direct corporate/investment bank and consultant interface


? Breadth of Experience Through Rotational Program - Maintain steep learning curve by having people rotate every 12 – 18 months


? Career Progression - Reward financial talent with challenging opportunities within GM's global organization - Fast career progression to Senior Analyst and Manager for high performers

No salary provided

Posted February 06, 2015 at 03:41PM from LinkedIn


Microsoft posted a job you might be interested in


Software Engineer II

Beijing City, China, CN - Computer Software

Candidates are expected to have following qualifications:

• Love to design and write great code

• With great technical passion, terrific problem-solving skills, drive for results, and ability to work independently

• Good communication and collaboration skills

• Fluent in one of the major programming languages: C, C++, C#, or Java

• Significant experiences in one of the following areas: large scale internet applications, operating system kernels, distributed systems, storage systems, and search relevance.

• Minimum 3 year software development experiences. Bachelor degree in computer science or a related field is required. Master or Ph.D. is preferred.

Microsoft is an equal opportunity employer and supports workforce diversity.

170075 907556

China, Beijing

Software Engineering: Development


Applications and Services Engineering

No salary provided

Posted February 06, 2015 at 03:40PM from LinkedIn


Hays Specialist Recruitment posted a job you might be interested in

Hays Specialist Recruitment


Brussels Area, Belgium, BE - Pharmaceuticals, Biotechnology

- Dental

- Online Marketing

- Perfect Dutch/French

For our client, active in the dental industry, Hays Marketing & Communications Brussels is looking for an Online & Offline Marketeer.

In Belgium the marketing team consists of 4 people, including a graphical designer, coordinator, assistant and the manager. However in this role you will also have close contact with different departments, especially sales and will have some international contacts too. You will be responsible for the online tools; meaning SEO, Google Analytics and social media. Also the web shop will be managed by you. Besides the online part, you will also be in charge of written communication and publications. For example you will write articles for brochures and will manage translation agencies for the translation of articles. Regarding these brochures you will also keep the stock levels in mind. Of course you will make sure that projects are finished within time and allocated budget.

Our ideal candidate has at least a bachelor in communication or marketing. A first working experience or internship is valued. Experience with Html, Google Analytics, e-commerce and e-mailmarketing is considered a real advantage. We are looking for a hands-on, creative, stress-resistant out-of-the-box thinker. Moreover you are a real team player and will help you colleagues with projects (e.g. fairs) when needed. Finally you have a perfect knowledge of Dutch and French and speak English very well.

Our client offers a real challenge with responsibilities in a well-known company where people are considered a great asset.

Important: Our client is easy accessible by car, but difficult by public transportation unless you are living in the area.

Interested in this challenging job as an Online & Offline Markteer? Apply to or contact Lore Temmerman from Hays Marketing & Communication at the Hays Brussels office on 02 541 16 50

No salary provided

Posted February 06, 2015 at 03:30PM from LinkedIn


It's Time

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Andrew O’Hagan: ‘I am in love with poetry’

As Andrew O’Hagan prepares to complete a journey around the British Isles begun with Seamus Heaney, he reflects on his lifelong immersion in poetry, and celebrates poets as risk-takers and miracle-workers

The bus down from Glasgow was a thing of legend. The city dissolved in a haze of orange lamps and the person beside you would toast the new life with a can of Carlsberg. It was a long night’s journey into day, and London’s King’s Cross, the place of arrival, was a different world then, with cobbled streets below and Victorian gasometers above, in the days before Eurostar and the revived St Pancras Hotel and the walkways and the Guardian. I remember a little cafe that was housed beneath the arches, a place with 1950s wallpaper, dirty windows and a matriarch in a plaid tabard who offered mugs of tea from a gushing samovar. “New, are you?” she asked. And over hard English rolls and bacon – I’d never known hard rolls before – she said the thing to do if you wanted to explore was to check your bag in at the cloakroom of the British Museum. I said that was nice of her and she gave me another tea and drew me a map of Bloomsbury.

A poet is a writer with a scrupulous spirit, that’s what books had taught me, so I came to London with a volume of Scottish verse and an essay I’d written about Wallace Stevens. In the museum I found a room filled with glass cabinets; they contained manuscript pages by well-known writers, and I couldn’t get over them, those wonderboxes, one of them showing Keats’s Lamia and another the inkings of Philip Larkin. I’ll only speak about dead poets here, and not because death becomes a poet, but because the greatness of newer poets is a magical course to me, and I won’t throw out the bairns with the memorial bathwater. I am in love with poetry and nothing is better than a fresh volume by a poet you admire. Ian Hamilton, that ace writer and recidivist encourager and denouncer of poets, could talk about Matthew Arnold as if the saint of high culture was about to walk through the doors of the Gay Hussar. He was present to him. And that is how I’ve always felt about Burns, or Yeats, or Tennyson, or Frank O’Hara. If great poetry helps you to live your life, then what is it exactly that a person can gain from the memorable speech of ghosts?

Self under self, a pile of selves I stand

Threaded on time, and with metaphysic hand

Lift the farm like a lid and see

Farm within farm, and in the centre, me.

Lives of football men remind us,

We can dive and kick and slug,

And departing leave behind us,

Hoof prints on another’s mug.

Yet they were of a different kind

The names that stilled your childish play

They have gone about the world like wind

But little time had they to pray,

For whom the hangman’s rope was spun,

And what, God help us, could they save:

Romantic Ireland’s dead and gone,

It’s with O’Leary in the grave.

On the grass when I arrive,

Filling the stillness with life,

But ready to scare off

At the very first wrong move.

In the ivy when I leave.

It’s you, blackbird, I love.

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Jacqueline Wilson interview: ‘People say my books are all sex and drugs, but I can’t remember any’

Children’s author Jacqueline Wilson is just about to see her 101st book published. From Tracy Beaker to Hetty Feather, her books depict real children’s real lives and problems in a way that few others do – and they are loved for it

There is a package on the table in front of Jacqueline Wilson that is almost bigger than the author herself. It is a bundle of the emails that have arrived since the last time she was here at her publisher’s office – a fraction of the 200 or so letters a week sent in by fans around the world. When she first started getting published, 43 years ago, she used to write lengthy, often illustrated replies to every one. “But I just can’t now. I try to reply to anyone who’s in really dire straits, or ill, or has written something quirky and fantastic and I just think: ‘Oh, you lovely thing!’ After that, it’s pot luck, and I just hope like anything that they’re not too disappointed.”

Wilson’s 101st book, The Butterfly Club, is just about to be published. What would her childhood hero Harper Lee, who this week announced she was publishing her second book 55 years after To Kill a Mockingbird, make of her? “I don’t know,” says Wilson, “But I can say that I would rather have written one To Kill a Mockingbird than all 101 of my books.”

Related: The story of Jacqueline Wilson

Related: Love letters to libraries: Jacqueline Wilson

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Experience: I was the victim of revenge porn

‘David had uploaded a sexual video and photo of us on to two porn websites and it had been picked up by hundreds of other sites. Explicit images of me were all over the internet’

I met David online just before Valentine’s Day last year. Friends had warned me of the dangers of internet dating, but I felt confident that I would be OK. After all, as I told them, I’m a good person and I’m online. David was charming and funny, and before long we were a couple. At first, the relationship was great. I loved and trusted him, and taking nude photographs and videos was an enjoyable part of our lovemaking. But David soon revealed another side of his personality – he was very insecure, narcissistic and had a violent temper. “Obey me like dog,” he would say. I am an intelligent woman in my 40s, but he was so charismatic that I put up with it. Psychological abuse became physical – I had to go to hospital after he beat me.

Our relationship was very turbulent and I broke up with him several times, only for him to guilt-trip me into taking him back; such was his power over me. Finally, after six months, I broke up with him for good when he tried to strangle me after I confronted him about being unfaithful. I took out a restraining order against him to prevent him coming anywhere near me again.

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